The Hundred 2021 – Lauren Winfield-Hill: Making relationship with spouse Courtney public was ‘a weight off my shoulders’
The England and Northern Superchargers batter mentioned she desires to be a task mannequin for youthful followers on the sector and off it
“It was fairly important, and fairly scary as nicely,” she mentioned. “It is a unusual one: I by no means actually felt totally comfy being open publicly about my relationship till I acquired married. Then, I felt a way of ‘I am right here, my individuals are right here, everyone seems to be glad, and we’re glad.’
“I am not afraid to be who I’m and be genuine any extra, however up till getting married, I would most likely by no means felt like that. It was fairly horrifying initially – even foolish issues, like posting a marriage photograph on Instagram. Individuals assume issues when somebody options rather a lot in your posts, however no one really is aware of.
“It may appear foolish, but it surely was fairly a giant deal. It seems like a weight lifted off my shoulders for certain. I truthfully suppose that is why I am taking part in a few of my finest cricket as nicely, as a result of I simply really feel comfy, assured and extra open about the whole lot.
“The Hundred is the right platform to assist and showcase our assist for the Stonewall basis. I genuinely imagine cricket is a sport for all. If folks will be true to themselves then it is making huge strides transferring forwards – it means the pond that you simply’re fishing from for gamers to return and benefit from the sport is wider and wider.”
Winfield-Hill is one in all a number of brazenly homosexual gamers within the England dressing room, and mentioned that she was starting to embrace the concept of being a task mannequin for youthful followers – not solely as a cricketer, however as an individual extra typically.
“It is about being extra open and assured in who you might be as an individual,” she mentioned. “You possibly can’t simply be a task mannequin as a cricketer with a canopy drive. It needs to be about who you might be – you need to be thought of as greater than only a cricketer. You need folks to love you as an individual.
“Followers need to know that Lauren Winfield-Hill likes to play golf, she likes to go for espresso, and she or he’s married to Courtney. That helps construct who you really are. I’ve by no means actually seen myself as being a task mannequin past being a cricketer as a result of I’ve put a variety of worth on simply being a cricketer, however I’ve put much more worth on the entire bundle now, and who I’m as an individual.”
“It is particular person desire,” she mentioned. “You possibly can take a horse to water however you’ll be able to’t make it drink. You possibly can simply make the setting good and open, and the tradition supportive. I feel the ECB are doing a variety of good work to make sure that is certainly the case.
“Hopefully, in time, if that was the scenario that might come up, they’d really feel comfy sufficient to be who they’re. I actually suppose that is one thing that the ECB have put a variety of worth on and been very supportive in pushing. Hopefully, transferring forwards, cricketers do really feel that they will simply be themselves.”
Matt Curler is an assistant editor at ESPNcricinfo. @mroller98